Self Harm

OK, I am sure you have noticed that the words "self harm" have popped up quite a few time in my previous posts. So I figured rather then just mentioning the word, why not talk about it instead.

OK, firstly self harm is very serious and it is not a joke, there are many types of self harm for example; cutting, burning, drug abuse,punching/hitting, head banging. ect. There are so many different types of self harm but they all do the same thing, they all allow you to relax and forget about what's going on in your life. Well that's what you think but it doesn't trust me I would know.

When I was younger I use to self harm, because I hated myself as I use to get bullied all the time, but even though I knew what I was doing was wrong. I didn't care because it was the only thing in my life at that point that I could control. But it didn't last long, after a while I lost control, and I would abuse myself constantly over any and every little thing. Instead of me controlling it, it controlled me, and I regret that I let it everyday of my life.

Listen, I'm not making this up, everything I write is always true, I don't write for attention, I write because I know what its like. I have been bullied, I have been abused, I have been what your going through so please understand. I'm writing this because I care.

So please don't self harm because it will take over your life.

Sexual abuse

Hi, I was originally going to talk about physical abuse but I changed my mind as sexual abuse has become a life threatening disease and it needs to be stopped. Too many people are being raped,molested,sexually abused and sexually  harassed all these things can lead to death, weather its during the incident or by suicide. Sexual abuse can happen at home,at your friends house, by a relative, a teacher or even a work colleague. the point is there are lots of people corrupted by this disease and they are trying to infect you. but don't let them, remember "NO,MEANS NO!"
If you have been sexually abused, have you confronted the person?, have you managed to cope with it?, does it torment you everyday? and when you go to bed does it creep up on you and steel your dreams? if so, why don't you tell someone?
is it because your ashamed, embarrassed, maybe you think no one will believe you. well if that's the case then im here, you can talk to me, i believe you, i will support you, and i promise i wont judge you. but if you dont want to talk to me you can always talk to childline they always listen, they always care and its kept 100% confidential.
please dont keep it in, let someone know before its too late.

Verbal abuse

Verbal abuse is a very common thing, unfortunately people don't realise how serious it really is, as words do hurt weather you mean it as a joke or not. words do hurt. i know that it can cause a lot of stress, pain and hardship but don't suffer in silence. let it out, Even if its your best friend, your parents, someone close to you or even me, you have my email. i am always here. i promise i wont judge. Anyway even if you cant stand up for yourself you shouldn't believe what other people say about you, because honestly its not true. I don't expect you to believe one person so ask for a second opinion but trust me, bullies are not worth your tears you are to precious. If not to your friends then your family if not your family then to me. you are precious to me, because you are an incredibly strong person, a beautiful, smart, amazing and talented person and i mean every word.

people who verbally abuse don't realise how much their words can affect someone's life so much. for example Demi Lavartto, i don't know if she still does but she use to have an eating disorder because when she was at school she would be constantly told thats she was fat and ugly. this situation has happened to so many people in fact it has gotten so bad that sometimes people commit suicide.
I don't know if your verbally abused or if your in this situation but please don't fall in to the trap of believing what other people say, as long as your happy with the way you are no one else's opinion matters.
I hope what i have said help's and remember im always here if you need someone to talk too.
This photo represents stress and pain that can be caused by anything, but in this situation it is most likely to be caused by verbal abuse.

Semicolon Project

Hi April 16th, is the day of the semicolon project, if your sad,depressed,heartbroken,self harms,anxiety issues or any problem/disorders. ect. you draw a semicolon on your wrist or arm. it is used by authors when they could end a story or a sentence but decide not to.
In this case your the author, please don't end your story!!!
Your story is to important and precious to end now.

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Bullying

 Its not your fault

Everyone at some point in their lives gets bullied weather your a child, a teenager or even an adult. I promise you, you will, get bullied at some point. It can be emotionally,physically,verbally and sometimes it can be sexually. It can come from your friends, your class mates, your parents/family or your work peers. But the most important thing that you need to know is that no matter what situation you are in. It is never your fault. Because as soon as you start to blame yourself it just gets worse for you, as it can lead to you emotionally,physically and verbally bullying yourself also known as self harm. Once you start self harming it can take over your life and you could get addicted and eventually become suicidal. And honestly its hell, I of all people would know as when I was younger I would self harm because I use to get bullied in fact it got so bad that I became suicidal. But this isn't about me, its about helping you so please listen to me when I say if your getting bullied speak up, let people help you and if no one does then fight back. I know people tell you to ignore it when your getting bullied but its easier said then done. so fight back because trust me it will get better.I know you may feel trapped and alone but remember: LIVE,LAUGH&LOVE!

Please never give up, I promise you it will get better.

This photo represents love, unity, freedom and happiness.
Something you should be constantly surrounded by.